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18 years ago 0 +0 / -0 406

Keith, I am so sorry. I buried my 15-year-old godson (and dear friend) a few years ago. Here's the deal, and you know it as well as I do. If you cave, you will have one more loss to face, which will diminish your presence when it is needed most. God forgive me for saying it around here, but it's not so much about hanging on to "The Quit;" it's about hanging on to all we've got left. You gotta hang on for the people around you; you let go, you got nothing to offer them. Go find a read Joe Cool if you need another harsh dose of truth therapy. I stand with you, shoulder to shoulder. peteg

18 years ago 0 +0 / -0 2670

kiwi, I am so sorry to hear this sad news, we are here for you try and take it ine day at a time hugs lynnexx

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$114,687.50

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Days: 6683 Hours: 21

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Life Gained
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45875

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229,375

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18 years ago 0 +0 / -0 2670

keith, you passed a very very tough test! congrats on that, but my prayers and good wishes go with you lynnexx [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 10/24/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 16 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 251 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �64 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 1 [B]Hrs:[/B] 21 [B]Mins:[/B] 8 [B]Seconds:[/B] 15

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$114,687.50

Amount Saved
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Days: 6683 Hours: 21

Minutes: 9 Seconds: 47

Life Gained
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45875

Smoke Free Days
Quit Meter

229,375

Cigarettes Not Smoked

18 years ago 0 +0 / -0 327

Great job, Keith! Tough test passed. QM [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 10/16/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 24 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 494 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $96 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 3 [B]Hrs:[/B] 17 [B]Mins:[/B] 4 [B]Seconds:[/B] 9

18 years ago 0 +0 / -0 318

LOOK UP. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 9/22/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 47 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,913 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $423 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 6 [B]Hrs:[/B] 19 [B]Mins:[/B] 18 [B]Seconds:[/B] 49

18 years ago 0 +0 / -0 537

I am so sorry. I know what you are going through. I have been there and watched a dear friend bury their child. There are no words to descibe the grief. My prayers are with you and your friend. Terri [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 9/28/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 41 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 615 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $149.65 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 3 [B]Hrs:[/B] 23 [B]Mins:[/B] 48 [B]Seconds:[/B] 15

18 years ago 0 +0 / -0 2631

Hi Kiwi - I am so sorry to hear about your friend and the loss of their son. I believe that there is no greater loss than the loss of one's child. My sincere condolences.... Windy [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 9/11/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 58 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,174 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $290 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 5 [B]Hrs:[/B] 13 [B]Mins:[/B] 44 [B]Seconds:[/B] 19

18 years ago 0 +0 / -0 2631

Kiwi Was just checking in to see how you were doing. Congratulations on remaining strong in your quit during such a difficult time. You and your friends are in our prayers. Windy [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 9/11/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 59 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,198 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $295 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 5 [B]Hrs:[/B] 16 [B]Mins:[/B] 26 [B]Seconds:[/B] 47

18 years ago 0 +0 / -0 41

Wow... Keith - hugs and comfort are being sent your way. Please pass it on to your friends, too. Even in the midst of what seems insurmountable grief, there is comfort - be open to it and it will find you. That is what you need the most right now - comfort and balm for the soul. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 11/10/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] -1 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 0 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $0 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 0 [B]Mins:[/B] 0 [B]Seconds:[/B] 0

18 years ago 0 +0 / -0 2039

I am so sorry to hear of such tragedy, Kiwi. This is a very emotional time for you. Hang in there because smoking won't change anything. Thinking of you, Jan [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 10/16/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 23 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 698 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $207 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 2 [B]Hrs:[/B] 12 [B]Mins:[/B] 53 [B]Seconds:[/B] 36

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